I fell into a trap that was set to destroy me with open eyes. I became critical, judgemental and began to speak negatively.
I was so caught up in this cycle that I didn’t realise at first how destructive the path was that I was on.
Until I made the decision to never entertain any negative thoughts towards my husband any longer.My negative attitude towards my husband affected my once positive attitude towards the world and my world. I began to speak negatively about almost everything and everyone.
The decision to capture my thoughts, once again changed me. It freed me. As peculiar as it sounds, it did. I became more positive towards negative situations around me. I had a renewed hope in me and it was easier to honour our marriage vows in the times I just wanted an ‘out’-pass. Whenever he says something hurtful or broke another promise or behave in a way that I absolutely hate, I choose to let it go. I choose to not allow any destructive or negative thoughts towards him. It is a constant decision.Romans 12v10 ~ be devoted (dedicated, faithful, steadfast) to one another in love. Honour (acknowledge, respect) one another above yourselves.